There are many ways to ensure that your children become the best person he or she can be, but the best way to do that is by effectively parenting. When your children are receiving the best parenting, they will feel better about themselves and their ability. They will be able to love and respect each other if you effectively provide them parenting love. Today, i will provide you a step by step guide on how to parent effectively and ensure that your children become what they want to be.
The first step is start working your current relationship and build a loving relationship with your children. You will need to be a good role model for your children, this is because your children are learning about how to act by watching you. Therefore, reflect on yourself before you lash out in front of your children. Make sure to do your best to act as best as possible, give respect, friendliness, honesty, kindness, tolerance and many other trait you want for your children. Treat your children the way you want them treat other people. However, you need to provide quality time with your children and spend your time in specific routine such as family meal or movie time. If you are not able to spend time with your children, make sure to put a note or give something special in his or her lunch box, so they will feel your love for them.
The next step is encourage your children to do good action and behavior. You might need to set limits and be consistent with your discipline. With proper discipline your children will be able to develop self control and keep good behavior. If you find your children beign good, make sure to praise them and give some rewards. The reward can be a simple act of love, hug and compliment. Then, help your children to experience the world and learning, however dont coddle them. Give your children some space to learn the value of perseverence.
The next step is make sure to nurture their self-esteem. Since self-esteem are come from inside, you shouldnt coodle them, give your child the opportunity to explore the world and their talent. All you need to do is help them to learn everything with support, but let your childe have a chance to be good at something. This way, your children will improve emotional intelligence and will be better overtime.